Husband in childbirth: pros and cons. Partnerships

Preparation for partnerships. Is it worth it to be decided on partnerships: reviews, pros and cons?

Husband in childbirth is pretty substantial moral and physical support for the future mommy. Today, partnerships have become tremendous popular in our country. Sixty percent of women want to give birth in the presence of a loved one.

However, there are several nuances that you need to know in order to make a decision about collaborative genera. These nuances will be discussed in this article.

Partnerships: Analyzes

Analyzes for men for partnerships

Before you go to give birth, a woman and her spouse should contact that hospital in advance where childbirth is planned, with a request to issue a list of analyzes that the man should pass.

Each hospital has their own wishes for the presence of a man in childbirth. Some establishments do not require anything, except for replaceable clothes and shoes, and some, especially new modern maternity hospitals, can issue a whole list of analyzes needed for a companion in childbirth.

As a rule, such obligatory analyzes include:

• fluorography
• analysis on HIV
• analysis on syphilis
• analysis on hepatitis C and in
• analysis on staphylococcus
• help from health care therapist

It is worth noting that most often the case is only fluorography. This study is extremely important to avoid distribution in the male house of the epidemic of tuberculosis.

In addition to analyzes, a man must be equipped in the maternity department of a clean tailored light clothing:

• open Slippers with Socks
• light natural pants
• cotton T-shirt

Partnerships: Preparation, courses

Training courses for partnerships

• In addition to the necessary things and analyzes from a husband in childbirth, a number of knowledge and practical skills will be required.
• Similar information The future father can get on special preparatory courses. Such courses are usually carried out with female consultations and maternity hospitals.
• You can seek help in preparing for childbirth and private preparation centers for pregnancy and childbirth
• Qualified specialists in such centers for a certain fee will teach a man to all skills of an experienced father in childbirth

A course of training for partnerships must be trained by the following exercises and knowledge:

1. Stages of generic activity. The future father should be able to distinguish the preparatory battles from
2. Count the fight. A person who does not experience painful pains is much easier to measure the duration and frequency of contractions. At the same time, a man can fix everything on a piece of paper for greater accuracy.
3. Technique of proper breathing. Women during the battles are very difficult to relax and breathe correctly. Because if there is a person who constantly controls and adjusts her breathing, it should be much easier for it
4. Technique of facilitating massage. This is perhaps the most basic feature of the husband in childbirth. Many women noted that the massage of the sacrum and the loin, which the woman was impossible to make himself, very much facilitated their condition during particularly strong bages
5. Appeal with a newborn baby. Immediately after childbirth, the woman will be too exhausted, because for some time the newly new father will have to take care of the baby, thereby letting the mammy a little rest. A man should know what the cries of the crumbs mean, what the kid may want, how to keep him in his hands, to pay attention to when finding the baby and father Tet-A-Tet
6. Conversation with a psychologist. In the course of this conversation, a psychologist on childbirth will determine whether future parents are ready for joint birth, will help them tune in to the desired way, will teach it to relax correctly and remove tension

Training for partnerships

• In addition to the above knowledge, a man must have a positive and decisive attitude. He will have to maintain a few hours to maintain and calm his spouse during a very complex and painful period for her
• Whole this period of time, the future father must be all the time on the check and is almost unquestioned to fulfill the orders of his spouse. In some moments he will have to be painted and more serious in order to stop, sometimes starting panic and hysteria in women
• In addition, the companion in childbirth will need to constantly maintain contact with the medical staff. At the same time, the future father should remain balanced, and do not succumb to fear and panic of their spouse
• His main task is not to annoy doctors with his threats and screams, but, on the contrary, soberly perceive their instructions and convey them to an exhausted woman

In which maternity hospital can you give birth to your husband?

In some hospitals, you can give birth with her husband?

• In principle, according to the law a man is free to attend the birth of his wife. However, there are exceptions to the rule
• Therefore, if you plan to partner childbirth, it is better to know in advance your hospital if they have a partnership delivery allowed
• If you are resolved, then it is necessary to clarify requirements for the companion at birth (analyzes, clothing)
• Some people believe that for partnerships generations have to pay extra. This is not true. More precisely, such a requirement can be called illegal

Maternity hospital can refuse a father to attend the birth in such cases, provided by the legislation:

• quarantine in the hospital
• overflowing boxes
• catarrhal or viral disease in the future father
• bad analyzes companion

In all other cases it is possible to assert his right to be present at birth assistant. This right in the first place itself has a woman in labor. After all her support and planned partnerships childbirth.

Births attended by her husband: for and against

"For" and "Against" Partnership childbirth

Women who oppose her husband's presence at childbirth, almost as much as women and supporters of partner deliveries.

Female opponent of family births motivate their beliefs the following statements:

• after seeing a man at birth may refuse intimacy with a woman
• a woman at the time of birth looks very impartially, that may push her away from her husband
• some men may be dishonored in the delivery time, losing consciousness or fainting
• man may lose confidence during labor, being completely helpless

However, these reasons - it is only rare cases of speculation or women themselves.

In fact, a woman must first think about yourself and your future baby. And in so doing, it can help to none other than her man. Here is a list of what the father at birth can make life easier for his wife:

• correct pillow
• wipe the sweat on his forehead
• submit anything
• help change
• call for medical staff
• to fix the frequency of contractions
• moral support
• a massage to ease contractions
• go to the pharmacy or store
• bring to eat
• support during long movements in the room and the corridor of the maternity ward
• carry a tripod with a dropper
• find out from the medical staff to any question
• correct breathing during labor and attempts
• tuck

Whether to go to give birth with her husband?

This list of positive moment from the presence of the father in childbirth is much more than a list with negative partnership parties. True, there are several cases when it is better to abandon the collaboration:

• father does not want to be present in childbirth, and he forced him forced it
• the man did not pass special training and knows nothing about childbirth
• spouse - enough disgust and impressionable (afraid of blood)
• future parents have already pretty strained and complex relationships

Planning partnerships are better only when complying with all the following conditions:

• the future father wishes the first to see the birth of his baby on the light and eager to take part in this process.
• the man is stressful, not afraid of blood type
• the spouse passed the preparatory courses and everything knows about childbirth
• the future mother has no complexes, and she does not hesitate to give birth at her husband
• spouses strong, trusting relationships

Partnerships: reviews

Partnerships

• Judging by the reviews of partnerships, it is possible to draw conclusions only that all people are different. If for some women a man in childbirth was a strong support and support, then for others he acted only as an irritant
• Some mommies themselves have to reassure their narrowed and tell them that at a particular moment of generic activities occurs with them and the baby
• Others, on the contrary, can no longer think about, except for their own torment and pain. And only the voice of a beloved man returns them to reality and promotes to proper behavior during childbirth
• Many women during battles beat and bite their husbands. Other soothing and relax under the action of their hands and massage
• Therefore, making a decision about whether to plan partnerships or not, should be taken jointly with her husband. Future parents can simulate the process of childbirth and estimate how they will behave during them
• A very important stage of family childbirth remains preparations for them. Potential dads and mothers need to be required to undergo special courses and talk with a psychologist

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