Many parents believe that the child should learn everything to learn about the genital nuances of growing up when it grows, understand the principles of the device's own body and the norm of behavior in this topic. But to neglected in this way, the sexual education of children can not be in any way, otherwise, knowledge in this delicate theme will come to him from peers, and most likely they will be unnecessarily contrived, twisted and submitted not in that light.
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When is it appropriate to start publishing?
Information on sexual development and upbringing may be stressful for the psyche of the child, if he is not ready to perceive it. Therefore, it is necessary to submit it when the child himself will ask questions about the sexual education of children. You can not answer: "You are still small to talk about it." The parent is obliged (as the closest person and authority, that is, the source of reliable information) to answer the questions of the child in the form, what will be acceptable, respectively, its age. But to lie or postpone the explanation for "when you grow up".
The main points of the right sex education
So, according to parents, it's time to raise the issue of sex education. How to start, what could be the basic recommendations of doctors and psychologists in such a matter? So:
- The perception of such a difficult information for the child will largely depend on the parent behaves, presenting this topic. It is necessary to speak as calmly as when discussing any other topic.
- If the child uses indecent expressions, it is impossible to be angry, and just explain to him that it is not worth being expressed, and the parent against such words.
- If parents lack knowledge to explain, then you can contact the children's literature on the sexual education of kids, where the highlights of which wanted to know the child without excesses. You should not hide from it and some of the nature of the nature of boys and girls, you need to explain to the child in time that there are pollutions and menstruation before this happens to them.
Young children should also be informed by parents about sexual violence to avoid the most dangerous situations. It is necessary to convey to the children's consciousness that adults can incorrectly come with children, and that you should not agree with them to go somewhere, and always tell parents if such proposals did they have time to hear or get.
It is also not necessary to go into details and spend a long lecture on this topic, because the sexual education of children is just a brief acquaintance with the nature of human life with the question "How do children come from?", Not a course of biology or anatomy. It will be great if the child asks himself that he remained incomprehensible, you need to make sure that the child understood what he was told, right, not ambiguously, and learned the information without shame, disgust or in a distorted not true form.