Education of children is an eternal problem facing parents. Today's society is developing rapid pace and current children are not similar to their peers 20-30 years ago. How to raise your child? What is the modern education of children? We will try to give several important tips.
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Modern children - what are they?
The modern global world requires the current children of the ability to treat with respect to different global cultures, at the same time without losing their national dignity and love for their "roots". The development of science and technology is a rapid pace, therefore it is necessary to be intellectually developed to keep up.
Unfortunately, computers have almost replaced human communication. Therefore, modern education of children should be directed to the formation of a child with a strong healthy self-esteem capable of lively communication with others.
Modern education of children should be the upbringing of a moral and spiritual man who could keep all the best, which created human civilization, and would have managed to transfer it to his descendants.
The development of each generation of children goes faster and faster. Todders today on "you" with modern technician, they rapidly assimilate new information. This is undoubtedly not bad. At the same time, the current accelerats are early trying to smoke, get acquainted with alcohol, know sexual life early, etc. How to protect them from this?
The basic principles of modern education of children
First, parents should know that their child is already a person, despite age. Therefore, the attitude towards the child must be respectful, understanding. Yes, the baby is not yet independent, it depends on his parents, but he is a person, and it is impossible to forget about it.
Secondly, children's psychology is arranged in such a way that the child always copies someone else's behavior. First of all, he copies his parents. Therefore, Mom, and the dad should remember about it, and always be an example for their children and in the behavior of the house, and in relation to relatives, and in communicating with the surrounding people.
Thirdly, the child's questions need to be treated with respect, do not hide from him, and do not dissuade: wait, you will grow up, then you will learn later, etc. Then the child will receive an answer to the question of interest to his question from other sources. And where is the guarantee that the information will be correct?
Even if the child is clearly carries nonsense, it is not necessary to treat this. It is necessary to correct it gently.
The child must have the right to choose and learn to be independent. The decision should be made by himself, and for it needs to be responsible. The child should know from the earliest age that the answer for his act will be sooner or later, but will be.
What can not be made to parents in the process of raising children
1. You can not shout on children. Then they will shout on their parents. Therefore, it is better not to start it.
2. You can not deceive children. Parents must fulfill what they have promised.
3. It is impossible to pathe your child too much, having deprived it of independence.
4. And, on the contrary, excessive connivance can lead to unpredictable consequences.
5. No need to overestimate the possibilities of the child. Modern parents "stuff" their Chado in all possible sections and schools - English, choreography, sports, drawing, etc. You need to take into account primarily the physiological features of your child, because every child is individual, and that is easily given to one, it may be unbearable for another.
And it is worth remembering that physical punishment is not a method of education, they will not lead to the desired result. Moral punishment is stronger for the child.