The role of the father in the educational process is difficult to overestimate. It has long been proven that children raised in a full-fledged family grow successful, happier, sociable, more active. So what is the role of dad in the child's raising?
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Father instinct
In women, the maternal instinct appears during pregnancy, childbirth, breastfeeding, changes in the hormonal background of the body. With men, everything is much more complicated: the father's instinct is based on an emotional background. The connection of the dad with the child occurs when the father participates in the upbringing of the crumbs when something does for his chad. After all, men are people actions. And because if the father rarely sees the child, the emotional connection between them is interrupted, and the father's instinct is suppressed.
So that this does not happen, the dad should actively participate in the educational process of his Chad. And for this you need quite a bit - just spend your free time with the baby.
Dad and newborn
Many dads are afraid even touch the brittle to the newborn baby. However, it is worth understanding that the baby needs paternal attention in the same way as in Maternal. And the fact that allegedly men are awkward and unsure in their manipulations aimed at caring for a baby are stupidity and delusion. After all, the new mammy is the same odd, as well as the daddy, and everything learns gradually. Learn to care for the cloth together, not attracting grandmothers to this process.
Understand one thing: Men in relation to their children are very sensitive and gentle. They will never harm their chad. Therefore, it is not necessary to refuse a man if he showed the initiative to help with the child.
Swimming and walking
The process of bathing a newborn is quite complicated, and my mother can do it difficult to cope with him, especially in the first months after childbirth. And therefore the role of the Pope in this case is very important: a man is much patient, stronger, resourceful. Such a bathing of the baby will turn into real entertainment, after which dad, and the child will sleep hard until the morning.
If dad during swimming will be having fun with the baby, making various gymnastic exercises with him, the crumb will very much will love the swimming process.
Do not be afraid to let dad with a child for a walk of one. On the contrary, it needs to be done if not daily, then regularly. While dad walks with the baby in the fresh air, the mother will be able to relax to relax, which is so important for the female body after delivery. Yes, and the baby daily walks will benefit: it will be better to sleep, there will no longer be capricious, his immunity will be gradually strengthened.
It is advisable to go for a walk before bedtime. Therefore, dad can spend time with a child even after work. And you should not give up walks, if the street is rainy: just get on the weather, take the umbrella, and put on the baby on the stroller, and enjoy the fresh air insert.
Father's care
The role of the Pope is not only in the upbringing of the child, but also in the ability to make a woman who gave him the kid, happy. For this, a man must maintain his spouse in every way, help not only with the care of Chad, but also at home. A few months after the childbirth, Dad will be able to stay with a crumb alone, while mom will finally go to the hairdresser, a salon or a movie with girlfriends. After all, a woman is also needed a full-fledged rest. And with feeding, changing and laying a child to sleep, any man will cope not worse than women.
The role of dad in the child's education is also in the arrangement of the room for a newborn. Of course, the design and color of the furniture better let the mother choose, but the bed, shelves, a table and other furniture better entrust to the father. Child safety in the house is also a purely male task.
Pope should understand that the upbringing of his daughter and son differs among themselves. So, with his daughter, the father should be caring, loving. So he will form a proper understanding of the relationship between a woman and a man. But the boy's boy should be a bit more stricter, but he should pay attention more, since the female hyperopka prevents the formation of real male qualities in a child.
What to do the Father with older kids? In fact, options mass:
- this is desktop games (lotto, checkers, chess);
- and reading books;
- and fishing hiking, playground, attractions;
- production of various crafts, etc.
The role of dad in child education is one of the main. And therefore, try to keep the family full.