The first year of life is the most important in the development of the child, because during this period the formation of the first and most important foundation for the knowledge of the surrounding world and its roles in it. Despite the fact that in the first year of life, a small person occupies a contemplative position, he still forms his first impressions of people, about animals, about nature and how to live in this new world for himself. It was during the period of development until the year the upbringing of children from birth is performing a crucial role, because on the basis of his first impressions, the child will form and their behavior in the future.
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What exactly do you need to instill a small little man?
Let's start with the fact that the basis of the basics of proper education is the right attitude, especially the children on breastfeeding. The atmosphere in the family is very important: no quarrel, no screams and disassembly (by the way, pregnancy and the birth of a child are a great opportunity to learn from controlling their emotions).
The first basics of education are based on:
- the routine of the day (the crumb should understand and perceive the intervals between the processes of sleep, feeding, games and communicating with their parents);
- hygiene (it is very important from the first days to teach the baby to clean, it is necessary to take the rule that swimming is a very important process when the kid will grow up, you can put a wheelchair or a chair in the kitchen so that the child see how the mother works in the kitchen, prepares to eat is washing dishes);
- obedience (very important already on 5-6 months to instill the concept of "mother is busy": this means that, waking up, the baby can call mom, but if she did not come, it's not a reason to scream out);
- an understanding of what parents say (if the baby woke up and called Mom, and Mom is busy, she can come up and give the baby toy and say that Mom is busy, now she will share their affairs and come to him).
Such skills will help the child better understand the surrounding stop and his own position in the world. Having pushing the concept of cleanliness and hygiene from the diaper, the parents not only teach the baby to the fact that you need to always follow yourself, but in the future it will greatly facilitate your existence.
What manifestations in the toddler behavior should be focused?
Of course, the child will not tell the straight text that he realized that it was necessary to abide by hygiene or wait when Mom would free from his affairs and spend time with him. But parents can navigate the progression of education, based on what will observe their child's behavior. A good positive dynamics in this matter can be called some habits developed by the baby such as:
- if the diaper is full and it creates a baby's feeling of discomfort, he will not endure him, and will give it to his discontent with the corresponding behavior;
- the baby, waking up, does not suit shouts and hysterics, and maybe some time to entertain himself in the crib toys or play hands;
- the baby himself falls asleep, without requiring the tech in the arms or in the wheelchair;
- able to navigate with the help of visual contact, winks to parents or "plays" eyes.
In general, it is worth considering and some features in the behavior of the baby, for example, "something did not eat something" or earlier teething. At such moments, the baby, of course, will not behave very calmly, and his crying or bad mood can be dictated at all with non-pecroes, but the most real pain. Well, of course, every mother feels the mood of his baby and can understand when he is dissatisfied or when something happens to him is not good.
The role of Pope during this period is also great: he comes from work, should pay attention to the baby, for example, to lie down with him on the bed and tell what he was doing today. If parents are able to establish spiritual and psychological contact with their baby from the first days, this is guaranteed to save them from such problems as hysteria in the future.