The education of the child's personality requires efforts to be attached to reveal its talents, form a person. At the same time, the main role in the education is given to the family. The very concept of personality is complex, multifaceted, and currently there is no one faithful term. It can be said that personality is a set of individual traits of a person's character, data from birth and acquired with life experience, during the upbringing and its relationship with the surrounding people.
If parents correctly form and open the main features of the character of the child, their child will grow by a one-person personality, with leader's deposits, successful in human life. It's really true and to the place you can remember the folk wisdom here: "We sing a thought - you will get an action, lay the action - you will get a habit, lay the habit - get enough character, silence the character - send fate."
Spirituality as an indispensable personality development condition
Spirituality performs an important role in the development of the harmonious personality of the child:
- he must be able to empathize from an early age, feel the pain and suffering of others and experience them as their own. Otherwise, the child grows egoistically, cruel, becomes indifferent to someone else's suffering. Parents must read a lot to the child: it may be fairy tales, parables, in which there is a morality, and the child must understand it and realize;
- the child is needed from Izmala to teach to see and appreciate beauty, because it is the basis for the development of the mental qualities of the child, his abilities for the knowledge of the world. The child should notice the beauty everywhere - not only in nature, not only in humans, he should be able to appreciate the beauty of good actions. When walking with a child, parents must unobtrusively pay attention to a beautiful flower, a tree, building, and so on, and the child must express their attitude towards this;
- the child should grow responsible for his actions. You can help our brothers smaller. After all, any child asks the parents to buy a kitten, a puppy and other living creatures. It is necessary to meet the desire of the child to buy the animal to buy the baby to learn to be responsible for another living being. First, parents must show the child how to care for the pet, at first to help him. In no case in any way, the parents do not need to do everything themselves;
- children need to know that no bad misdemeanor remains without punishment. Retribution will overtake - sooner or later;
- the education of the child is impossible without upbringing in him confidence, self-esteem. You need to compare your child with others only in good sense to not punish, but on the contrary, to encourage. The child's efforts must be appreciated, but in moderation, since with an overestimated self-esteem there will be quite serious problems. Praise should be objective, sincere and honest;
- the child must learn to communicate with peers, he needs to help overcome shyness and modesty. Humor will come to the rescue - the children are friends with merry peers. The child should not grow egoist, he needs to be able to share his things. Naturally, except for those situations when it is roughly selected toys or personal belongings - here you need to be able to stand up for yourself;
- the child's education is based on the development of creative abilities. The child must create - draw, sculpt from clay and plasticine, together with mom sew soft toys or make appliques, along with dad - cut on a tree or collect models of cars or sailboats. Let him at first he would not all be obtained, but the child should attach his effort so that the light of creativity in it is not ugas.
The child's education is impossible without a healthy family atmosphere, in which love reigns, the opinion of each family member is valued, where the child can always find mutual understanding and support.