The child who has reached a three-year-old age develops on the basis of the perception of himself and the surrounding world. At this age, the baby begins to show his demands and show his abilities. During this period, parents and control are especially important for children. The crisis of 3 years is manifested in the misunderstanding of the parents and not the perception of the kid's desires, under the influence of which he is trying to stand on his own.
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The main manifestations of the crisis of three years
The main features of the crisis period can be called such actions:
- Negative: manifests itself pronounced by a child with a child of any parent demands. Nematicism may differ from disobedience to their categorical refusal of all proposed statutes.
- Stubbornness. At the age of 3 years, stubbornness can wear large-scale forms when the kid categorically refuses to fulfill the requirements of parents.
- Refusal of the usual type of entertainment without requirements for replacing old toys to new. In the crisis period, the baby can flatly abandon the existing standards of education and his usual lifestyle.
- Successive: It manifests itself when a child defends his point of view and shows an independent decision in the questions they need.
- Depreciation. It happens often and is based on a negligence attitude to subjects and toys that surround it.
- Protest. It is expressed in everyday conflicts with adults in children's institutions. Negative response to all the proposed options when communicating.
- Requirements. This behavior is characteristic of families with one child, and especially has a vivid expression in the crisis of three years. The child often, not realizing the arguments of the parents about the inappropriateness of one or another decision, is firmly on its own and inclined to roll hysterics.
Features of education
Education in such an age period is aimed at combating negativism and stubbornness, when a child with each disagreement begins to break the toys, heat the legs and ride on the floor. Sometimes it can turn into a more severe form when he with aggressive attitution is thrown with any object on parents. All this is characterized by manifestation of independence, activity and perseverance.
In order not to wait for pronounced disobedience during the three-year-old period, parents must use such rules when upbringing:
- You should not put a ban on actions, and try to gently explain that his opinion is taken into account, but you need to wait some time.
- All conflict situations occurring inside the family should not occur in the eyes of the child.
- With every free minute, try to pay attention to your child and show care.
- You should not shout and require the fulfillment of your solutions - you should hear the opinion of the baby and try to agree with him.
- If you have made a decision about any actions and reported this, do not change your decisions, because in the end the child will not be attentive and will cease to agree with you.
- If the baby incorrectly did or behaves aggressively, it is not necessary to react to it. And in the case of its positive attitude with the corresponding behavior and action, it should be repeatedly praised.
- Do not give a child if he tells you something. Prove that his word in the house has a weight, and he has the right to express his point of view.
- With any actions that entail an incorrect decision, in no case cannot push the child and not to provide himself, leaving alone with her thoughts.
The upbringing of the baby in the crisis of 3 years will be based on his separation from the family with the transition to society. Rising a girl, mother and father should show an example of a full-fledged and loving family with a friendly attitude. Gradually, it is worth considering the wishes of the daughter and, if possible, give her the opportunity to realize them. In the upbringing of the boy, a big fate must take a father, teaching the baby by masculinity, courage and other character traits inherent in men.