In order for children the most happy, all parents try to give them all the best. But, unfortunately, today there are not so many good people. The spiritual education of children begins with the behavior of the parents themselves, which should work on their worldview.
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Highlights in the spiritual education of children
The spiritual education of children should be built on the grounds that the child is a person, he is unique and individual. The child is not the personal property of his parents, he has his own destiny and his life attitudes. Parents often mistakenly think that it is better to know that it is necessary to make a child that it should be done in different life situations. Even on the streets you can meet the ugly scenes of "upbringing" when parents humiliate, offend children, impose their point of view. This is a sign of an ardent parent selfishness, a demonstration of adult power.
The right attitude towards children consists, first of all, in the realization that the child is a given by God the creature that parents are obliged to grow, raise, send to the right direction and correctly develop.
Despite the small age of the child, his opinion must deserve respect. The child's head has not yet been filled with public prejudices, and children's questions are chicted, naive and absolutely innocent. But adults are either embarrassed from children's issues, or carry all sorts of dog, believing that the kid is stupid and can not distinguish a lie from the truth.
The child should be accepted on an equal footing, only then he learns faster. If the child does not understand, he does not have respect in the family, he will look for respect and understanding elsewhere, often - on the street, and careors will not be native and close people, and the street with all the ensuing consequences.
The child must answer for his actions
Wanting to protect the child from the vitality of adversity, sometimes the parents do not trust him to fulfill it or that. If a child does not fulfill an important thing for him, it does not develop and deprived the possibility of knowledge of the world. The child should do their mistakes: without making mistakes, it is impossible to be an independent, responsible and full-fledged person. Otherwise, over time, the impaired child grows unsuitable for life, infantile.
How to relate to other children
The child must be able to communicate and take care of other children. Older children need syspria to take care of the care of the younger brothers and sisters, and the younger children should be accustomed to obey the elders.
If one child grows in the family, there is a threat that with improper upbringing he can grow egoist. Children should be able to share, they need to be taught unconscious, and in relation to it not only to his relatives, but also to other people. After all, selfishness is soon on the result, he brings emptying in the future, and the ability to self-esteem allows you to feel happy, feel the flight of the soul. Rise a nobility in the child - it means to teach him to respect others, teach share with people. The noble act of the child should always be encouraged.
The spiritual education of the child is impossible without constant, deep psychological contact with children. The child should be interested in everything that is happening in his family, to know and share the plans and goals of the family.
Do not forget about such methods of spiritual education of children as prohibition and renovation. Moreover, the censure should not insult the child, should be fair, adequate, sometimes a sharp assessment of the actions and actions of the child. A reasonable prohibition will allow the child to reasonably relate to their desires and opportunities for their implementation, relieve many negative parties in the behavior of the child.