Phrases that can not talk to children

There are certain phrases that are not recommended to speak to your child. They can injure his psyche. And no matter how many years your baby, he understands everything and remembers. Therefore, words should be selected carefully. Consider that it is impossible to talk to a child.

I will do everything myself, you still will not work

Such a statement can very much injure the children's psyche. That is, this way he is set to fail. As a result, the child feels that he is stupid, and is unable to do something independently. Subsequently, he will think for a long time before doing something, fearing that parents will scream on him again.

Take, but not no

This phrase is pronounced by some parents very often. Especially in such families where children constantly have something persistently. If they refuse his request, the baby will be clicked even more, as it will not seriously take the words of the parents. He will know that everything will be able to achieve everything, and it will constantly use it.

Repeat again - you will get

Usually after these words, nothing happens, the punishment should not be, it is just intimidation. The child is not only frightened, but also offended by his parents. You can not scare the baby, he must always know what punishment can follow any of his bad deeds. Simple intimidation will be given anything good.

To whom they said - stop!

It is impossible to raise the voice to the child. Coming and scolding on it, you should apologize. It is impossible to make the baby felt offended and helplessness. Very often after this phrase, he just begins to roar or closes in himself. It is very important to know that such words cannot be said to the child.

You are not stupid, and I have to understand ...

This is not a correct phrase: where does the child know something to know if this was not explained? Therefore, he will continue his questions until he knows the answer to his question. It should be understood that if the child wants to know something, then it is important for him and paramounts, it is better to calmly answer him.

Good children do not do

With a constant repetition of such a phrase, the child develops stereotypes. When growing, the boy will be shying for his emotionality, and the girl will have a complex at the non-fulfillment of women's affairs, for example, an unobed apartment. Remember that it is impossible to talk to a child.

Do not worry because of such a trifle

But it can only be a trifle for parents, and for a child it is possible something important. Put yourself in his place, remember childhood, and you will realize that the child is able to upset because of each little things, even because of a broken toy. Do not forget that at such ages are completely different values. Parents cannot be shown their indifference to the problems of the child, this will lead to loss of trust. Try it to understand and calm down.

Do not spoil my nerves and health

Very often, children hear this phrase from parents. Over time, the child will begin to perceive such words unpervently, and with a deterioration in the health of the mother (father), will not respond to it. Everything will be perceived so that parents just want him to stop playing and noise.

It's expensive not buy

It is difficult for a child to explain correctly that parents cannot afford to buy everything that he likes. But it should not say that it is expensive or no money. If he knows that parents have money, it means they will be able to buy everything, and he will not cease to ask, until he achieves his. Therefore, it is better to pick up other words - you have a similar toy, for example. It is important that the child understand the reason why he did not bought.

All normal children, and you ...

After such a phrase, it usually follows something offensive - stretching, untidy. Thus, parents lower the child's self-esteem, he lowers his hands. Having resigned, he begins to meet the label established by the parents. Remember that it is impossible to say to the child.