Do they see and hear us dead relatives and their souls? How to remember the dead relatives? Is it possible and how to call spirits, ask for help, advice from dead relatives? Can a deceased relative become an angel of the Guardian?

The article will tell you what is happening with the soul of a person after death and how to correctly remember the deceased.

Do they see, do the dead relatives and their souls hear us?

After a person dies, the life of his body ends: the brain and heart stops working. It is generally accepted that the human soul is a separate substance that exists regardless of the physical body and dies much longer than a person. Others believe that the soul does not die at all.

There is no accurate and certain opinion on this subject. Each draws their own certain conclusions based on religions and personal preferences. In Orthodoxy, it is generally accepted that after the body is dying, the human soul lives for exactly 40 days in the world with living people and only then goes to paradise. It is on the 40th day that it is customary to remember the deceased, escorting him to the "best world."

Therefore, we can safely say that the souls of the dead loved ones are present next to their family for the first 40 days, which means they see, feel and hear people. Of course, this does not happen when it is convenient for the souls themselves, but when they are mentally or verbally remembered, they will remember, turn to them.

How long does the human soul live?

Do deceased relatives see us in the cemetery?

Another question that excites people who buried their loved ones is to see their souls of the deceased when they come to them in the cemetery. Accents should be made on what souls are: abundant and not rested. The first are the souls of those who died naturally or were killed, the latter - the souls of people who committed suicide.

It is believed that not reputed souls are not worthy of going into the “best world” and their punishment - wander among the living, not finding repose. Such souls are often attached to their body, the place where they died or the grave in which they were buried. It is worth talking with such souls, because it is not customary to pray and put candles for them and only memories can at least somehow facilitate their existence.

It is also considered that after the burial, the soul may not go to the “other world” if it does not want it. It can exist among the living as much as it is required if she watches her relatives and is waiting for the completion of unfinished affairs. In any case, the soul is always attached to the body and, if you cannot feel the person in the usual environment, you can feel him at the burial site.

What is a human soul and how does it exist?

Do the souls of deceased relatives watch us?

When the human soul leaves the body, it no longer makes sense for existence, because all life goals and problems completely lose their meaning. All that she has is - these are feelings and it is they who guide the soul, allowing her to follow her loved ones.

It is also believed that in addition to the fact that souls see everything that happens to people, they help loved ones in difficult life situations: they give signs, protect from making mistakes, accidents, and allow us to make the right decisions.

Why do dead relatives come in a dream?

Sleep is a parallel world in which human consciousness lives. While the physical body is resting, many events are taking place in the soul and mind. The soul that is not burdened with the body, flies into the world of fantasies, memories, feelings, paintings of the future and the past.

In this “subtle” world, the soul of a living person can meet with the souls of dead relatives and relatives. This happens as if you are experiencing another scene from life or remembering something. You see people as they remembered them.

Contact a living person who does not have a paronyormal phenomena, the souls of the deceased can only in a dream. There they can simply be present as observers, make requests and questions, hug and talk about what they are missing.

It is believed that if you saw a deceased person in a dream, he misses you in his world. This is not worth it, it’s good if you remember it the next day, go to him in the cemetery or put a candle in the church. So you will facilitate their existence and make a service for them, because this is the only thing a living person for the deceased can do.

Why do the dead dream?

How to remember the dead relatives?

The remembrance of the dead is an important action that should be done not only when you feel it, but for all Orthodox rules. Dates for remembrance are considered especially important:

• Memorial after burial. It is believed that after the body is devoted to the earth, the next morning the soul of the deceased should bring a “breakfast”. A glass of vodka (you can drink other drinking) and a piece of bread are placed on the grave.
• Remembering for the third day. The first remembrance that should be done after a person died. The first remembrance is committed as the honor of the removal of the tribute of the resurrected Jesus Christ, as well as the veneration of the Blessed Trinity. An interesting fact: the first three days the soul of a deceased man walks on the ground, like a living person, but it is not visible to the eye. On the third day, the accompanying angel should take the soul into another world. During these three days, the soul recalls his whole life, all bad and good deeds, mentally says goodbye to all his relatives.
• Remembering for the ninth day. Mandatory tradition and custom that gives respect to nine angels - the servants of the King of Heaven. After the third day (namely after remembrance), the angel takes the soul of a man to the “paradise of the monastery” and for all 6 days she watches their beauty. It is believed that here it becomes easier for the soul and it forgets about any sorrow. Sorrow returns only when the soul enters the paradise gate and if the soul was sinful. The soul should appear before the Almighty and demand a pardon from him. On Earth at this time, relatives try to set the table, divide food with loved ones and drink for the deceased silently.
• Remembering on the fortieth day. This is an important date, which is very significant for the soul: at this time she worships the Lord the second time and he decides where to go: to hell or heaven, where his angels lead. On the fortieth day, loved ones not only set the table for remembrance, but also pray diligently in order to silence all the sins of the deceased in front of the “terrible court”.
• Remembering 1 year after death. A year is a circular cycle of time that measures existence. It is customary to recall the year in the circle of loved ones and relatives of the deceased, covering the table and reading prayers.

How is it customary to correctly remember the deceased?

Do the souls of the dead come to their relatives?

It is believed that the closest people for any deceased are his relatives. After a person dies, his soul becomes a generic spirit that protects the younger generation of the family from mistakes, wrong steps and accidents.

Is it possible and how to call the spirits of deceased relatives?

Calling the spirit is always an unnatural and abnormal phenomenon, since a living person should be in the world with living, and the soul of the dead in the world of the dead. Therefore, any “thread” connecting the living with the dead is a bad sign and a threat not only to health, but also to life.

It is better not to even try to call the spirit. If you want to turn to him and say something, it is better to put a candle in the church for the rest and cry with tears all boiled words.

Is it possible and how to talk, talk with a deceased relative?

You can not only turn to the souls of dead loved ones, but also necessary. Thus, you not only make your life easier and more calmly, but also calm the souls of the deceased, because the only joy for them is the love and memory of relatives and friends to whom they were dear.

You can communicate with the souls of the dead anywhere and anytime. Just focus on what you want to say. Imagine this person next to you and speak with him as with living, not embarrassed by feelings. Of course, you can only imagine that a deceased person could answer you a certain question, but if you want, you can hear his voice hidden in your memories.

Is it possible to talk alive with the souls of dead loved ones?

Why does a person see the dead relatives before his death?

Some life cases surprise a living person with their predictions, hints, signs of fate. Perhaps this is really true, but it is believed that before his death the soul of a person feels her predecessor. Intuition and foreboding are so subtle that not everyone can feel such a feeling.

One of the "symptoms" of such a foreboding is dreams in which a living person sees people who have passed away. Not one person can dream. It is important to remember what exactly people said in a dream and whether you called you with them. Perhaps you remember phrases such as: “We miss you”, “We want to see you”, “Come to us, we have good.”

Interesting: some dreams turn out to be so things that dead people in them speak living close direct text that their death will come very soon, as if warning about danger or giving the opportunity to say goodbye.

What do dreams mean in which a person sees dead people?

Can dead relatives help alive?

As already mentioned, everyone who passed away becomes spirit. The purpose of each spirit is to protect his family and contribute to its prosperity. That is why souls literally “take” a person from bad people, places, cases. A living person can feel it as a feeling of "deja vu" or intuition.

How to ask for help from deceased relatives?

In complex life situations or in the case of a poor mental state (illness, depression, apathy), you can ask for help not only from the Almighty, but also the souls of the departed ancestors. To do this, it is important to find a quiet place and fully concentrate on your thoughts, feelings, requests. Take a request or prayers, speak with souls as with living people and wish them rest.

How to ask for advice from dead relatives?

Of course, asking advice from the souls of the deceased ancestors, you will not get a direct answer and will not hear a loud voice. But, if you do it with all sincerity and love, perfumes can send you a sign indicating any advice and answer.

How does the souls of the dead ask for help?

Can a deceased relative become an angel of the Guardian?

A deceased close and beloved person often becomes an angel of a keeper for a living person. You can ask for the Almighty or not, but you can feel it by observing the “signs from above”, dreams and feelings of the presence of the deceased nearby.

What to do on the birthday of a deceased relative, is it possible to celebrate?

The birthday of a deceased person is a date that is very important. It means life and therefore on this day they remember the deceased, recalling him alive, discussing and praising him for good deeds. On this day, you can set the table and drink without clinking, putting a candle in the church for the rest, pray.

Is it possible to play a wedding if a relative died?

It is not accepted to play a wedding and celebrate large personal holidays (matchmaking, anniversaries, anniversary) if a close and significant person died in the family. Observing mourning is accepted in the first year after death, as a tribute to respect and love for it.

Prayers for dead relatives

The prayers of people who knew him alive and loved him will help to facilitate the existence of the soul of a deceased man. You can read prayers in a church or at home.

Prayer No. 1

Prayer No. 2

Prayer No. 3

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