20 etiquette rules for girls: how to become a real lady? Essential rules and good manners with a guy, in society, restaurant, at work, on a date

The article will tell you how a woman is at a height in any situation.

A woman should always remain an interesting special that will attract not only men. Even a married woman should maintain the main female secrets of behavior. So she will always be loved and desirable.

How should a girlfriend behave in a relationship with a guy?

Having met your favorite guy, the woman often doubts how to behave correctly. After all, I don’t want to scare or push a new acquaintance.

There are some rules, compliance with which will promote relationships to a new level:

• Follow the conversation. No need to be silent all the time, even if you are embarrassed to speak. You will become a boring new passion. But you should not tell you too much either. It is not necessary for him to know where your girlfriend went or when you go to manicure

Important: do not overload the guy with extra information, otherwise he will run away from you very quickly. Observe the middle ground in the conversation

• Do not bother. This is a very frequent mistake of girls in beginning relationships. Do not call him every hour with stupid questions. On the contrary, wait for the time that he himself wanted to call

How to behave with a guy

• Don't be excessivelycapricious. At first, you do not need to be offended by the little things, which could not be noticed. If you already first begin to puff your lips from resentment and wait for an apology, your boyfriend will just stop answering calls sooner or later. After all, if this happens right away, then what will happen next?
• If a young man caring is pretty to you, then give To him it understand. No need to say some words, just take his courtship and do not push him away from yourself
• If you decide to establish a serious relationship with a guy for yourself, then do not overdo it with bitchiness. At first, the guy may like this character, but after a while he will want to be next to a kind and affectionate woman

Rules in relations

• Do not lie. Men are very repelled by such women
• Follow your appearance: do light makeup, manicure, pedicure, depilation. You cannot allow you to come to a meeting with a guy with shabby varnish or hair on your feet

Important: you do not need to apply a ton of cosmetics for each meeting. This will only scare away your new gentleman. Be natural and beautiful

• Let Your young man take care about you. Even if you yourself can convey a package of products to the apartment - let it help you if he wants, of course. A man loves to feel like a sort of assistant

How to behave with a guy as a girl

How to take gifts correctly?

Important: if a woman does not receive enough gifts, then the reason may be in her inability to take them correctly.

It is with her behavior that a woman can kill any desire of a man to give gifts. Therefore, follow the following rules, so as not to kill the very hunting of a man:

• Sincerely rejoice gift. Even if the gift is not quite the one you were waiting for
• Do not skimp on emotions. If your man sees how childishly rejoice in his gift, he will want to give them again and again
• Not start disassemble present " by shelves". Those. If a man gave you a dress, then you do not need to first watch its composition. Try it, tell me how you like it and hug your man. After alone with a gift, see what interests you

How to take gifts correctly

Important: your first emotion is important to a man. And if you begin to consider and reason instead of joy instead of joy, it will seem that you do not like the gift

• If you didn't like the gift, then hug it You will thank your man. In the first 10 seconds, you cannot hide your disappointment in your eyes. After hug, play the role of a satisfied woman
• If the flowers are not your loved ones, too rejoice, after all, these are also good. Only then after a couple of days inadvertently tell me what flowers your loved ones

How to take flowers

Important: if the gift did not like the gift, then do not talk about it right away. After a while, by chance, by chance, to the topic and gently tell me that it was precisely what you did not have to your liking

Rules of etiquette at work

Which woman does not like to be a flirt and catch male views on herself?

However, work is an inappropriate place for such actions. So how to behave at work?

• Appearance. You must always be well -groomed and tidy. Do not let yourself go to work with a dirty head or in a mint sweater
• Makeup. You can apply makeup, but it should be as natural as possible and not attracting attention. No "smokey eyes" should not be
• Cloth. The choice of clothing should, first of all, depend on the internal "Dress Code". Do not try to wear a black bottom and white top if the leadership allows you to wear clothes to your taste. Show your individuality. But no mini and deep neckline skirts. You cannot afford to create an image of a frivolous girl

Etiquette at work

• Working place. Keep your workplace clean and order. You are a woman. You should be careful in everything. Do not allow dust accumulation on the table or crumbs from lunch. Also, do not put on the table a frame with a photo of you in a swimsuit, for example. If you really want to see your family in the photo always, then choose the most restrained photo
• Punctuality. Do not be late for work. For your bosses, this will be a bad sign, and for colleagues - a frivolous approach to work
• Greetings. Always greet the first and smile a little, even if you have a bad mood. The boss must see a positive employee in you

Rules for working etiquette

• Do not fall spirit. If something does not work out, do not despair. Do not be afraid to ask for help from colleagues, especially at first. Try to find the necessary information anywhere. Your task is to be a strong and promising employee for your authorities
• Not fly flirt With colleagues openly. Of course, if you have mutual sympathy, then you can flirt. But this flirting should not be defiant. And it is unacceptable to flirt immediately with the entire male half of the team

Important: these are general rules. Depending on the place of your work and your position, you can be either more open or even more restrained

Rule of etiquette at a party, at a table for girls

How to behave when you are invited to visit?

Nine no Visiting:

• Notbrave. Late look very disrespectful towards the owners
• Not Come before the appointed time more than 5 minutes. Arriving earlier, you can put in an awkward position of the owners who just finished the last preparations for your arrival
• Not Walk empty -handed. No need to buy any gifts. Just take something for tea

Etiquette at a party

• Not Turn right at the table. While no one sits down at the table, you should also refrain: sit down in the chair and expect
• Not Choose your place. No need to sort through all the places at the table in search of a more suitable one. If the hosts have not determined your place clearly, then sit on any you like
• Not attract attention. No need to speak louder than the rest of the guests or laugh too loudly

How to behave away?

• Not Criticize food. Be sure to tell the hostess what dish you are just delighted with. She will be very pleased
• Not Speak on the table at the table
• Not Crazy when all the guests are already starting to disperse. If you are the only guest, then watch the mistress/owner. If the OA is looking at the clock every now and then, begins to yawn and talks about how much she has tomorrow, then you have to leave for a long time

Important: of course, it is of great importance, who invited you: your best girlfriend or groom to get to know your parents

Restaurant etiquette

You are invited to a restaurant by a man or a company of friends - you must behave like a real lady. What rules It is worth adhering to:

• If you go to a restaurant with a man, then let him open the door in front of you and help you take off your outer clothing
• If your man is going to push you a chair - let him do it
• When choosing a dish, choose the option in the middle price range
• No need to say that it does not matter to you that he will order. Choose what you like
• No need to inform the man on the diet. Just pick up the most suitable food for your diet

Restaurant etiquette

• Let me order an alcoholic beverage to order a man, but at the same time clarify your preferences
• If your dish was brought before, then you should wait until they bring your gentleman
• There is no need to look at the mirror at the table
• Leave your phone in your purse
• If the handbag is small, such as a clutch, then it can be put on the edge of the table. If the bag is larger, then hang it on the back of the chair or put it on your knees

How to behave in a restaurant

• Do not sort out cutlery, and even more so wipe them with napkins. Your man may calculate that you are a bad opinion about the restaurant he chosen
• If you are stuffy, then you should not wave in the face of a napkin. It is enough for your man that it would be nice to turn on the air conditioner. And a man must understand your subtle hint, he ate a real gentleman
• Even if you are very hungry, you should not eat very quickly. Eat food measuredly
• Do not laugh loudly or speak too loudly in a restaurant. People at neighboring tables should not pay attention to you. But you should not be too clamped either

Etiquette in a restaurant

• If you eat, then put the devices parallel to each other so that the handles are on the right
• If you have not finished eating yet, then put the cutting devices on the cross. This will save you from awkwardness when the waiter wishes to take away your dish

Restaurant etiquette

• By the time the waiter brings the account, and the man should ask about this - you must already decide if you will pay for yourself
• You cannot discuss who will pay, before the waiter
• If you pay for yourself, then leave 10 % of your order on tips
• Leaving the restaurant, the man will still be in front of you

Who pays in a restaurant

Rules of etiquette for a girl in society

While in society and observing the following rules, you will make a pleasant impression not only for men, but also on the female half of society:

• Watch your own external view. This is a business card of any woman. Exclude defiant outfits or battered hoodies from the wardrobe. Dress the neatly. Read more about clothing etiquette in a separate subsection below
• Not come out From a house with a dirty head and a shabby manicure. It is better to erase the varnish in the latter at all from the nails

How to look like a girl

Important: do not be vulgar - this is the most important rule for any girl

• Not swear obscenities. So you only show that you are not enough for the mind to more culturally express strong emotions
• Not smoke In public. Smoking woman is a very ugly picture
• Be tactful. If someone uttered unflattering words or uncomfortable questions to you, just lift the eyebrow slightly. So, your interlocutor will understand what he said too much. And you will remain the same competent and wise woman. Read more about how to communicate below in a separate subsection
• At least sometimes interested in news in the world, so that the conversation can be supported
• Not be arrogant. Such women do not at all attract the sympathy of others

Rules of etiquette for a girl in society

Etiquette rules for a girl on a date: Rule of three dates

Not need to lose head From the received invitation to the date. Stay all the same wise girl.

• When meeting, do not rush to your boyfriend's neck. Extend your first hand. And if your boyfriend is quite educated, then he will kiss your hand slightly
• No need to talk about your past relationship
• Follow the conversation. Do not tire the chosen one with tedious stories about your friends or trips to the store. But you should not be silent either, because your boyfriend will consider that you are bored and uninteresting with him

Etiquette on a date

• If you go to the cinema or theater, let the man go forward to lead you to your place
• In a restaurant and cafe, behave as proposed in the subsection above "restaurant etiquette"
• It is better to turn on the phone for soundless mode. If he still calls, then tell me that you will call back later
• At the end of the date, do not ask the first question: “Will we see you again?” Do not impose
• When a man will ask such a question, you should also not scream in full voice "Yes, of course." Answer more restrained: "Yes, I would gladly meet you again"

Details

Important: Rule 3 dates does not mean that you are obliged to let him in bed on a third date. This only means that you should not do this before

Russian speech etiquette for a girl

It is worth observing speech etiquette to supplement the impression of herself as a whole. Compliance with speech etiquette speaks of your education and literacy.

• At meeting Say “Good afternoon”, “Hello”, “I am glad to see you” (to note your joy from the meeting)
• If you have to disturb whom—that (for example, in public transport) - say “I apologize”, “could you”, “be kind”
• Always thank you, if you were done good, they helped: "Thank you", "thank you"
• At acquaintance Say "I am glad to meet", "we will know"

Speech etiquette

• Leaving, say "See you", "I will be glad to see again", "Goodbye"

Important: no matter how you use the right words, obscene words will interrupt all good impressions of you. Do not swear obscenities!

Telephone conversation etiquette

The etiquette of a telephone conversation is not at work, but in everyday life it is quite simple:

• See the rules of speech etiquette above and follow them even by phone

Important: your emotions are transmitted by phone, despite the lack of visual contact

• If you are interested in communicating, then smile, be cheerful. Your interlocutor will definitely feel it

Telephone etiquette

• Do not eat during the conversation. No matter how you try to eat quietly, your interlocutor convicts you of this. And this is already a bad tone
• Do not talk lying down. The interlocutor will also notice the strange timbre of your voice and will consider it for indifference

Important: with your loved ones, of course, you can be more free to communicate

Acquaintance with the parents of the groom: how to behave?

Important: acquaintance with parents is a very exciting moment that will create the first impression about you, which will then be difficult to change.

It is for this reason that you need to follow useful advice:

• Dress not too strictly, but not too frankly. A simple and convenient outfit for you is what you need
• Be friendly, but do not overdo it. Otherwise, parents will give the impression that you are insincere
• Do not take the phone with you at the table
• Do not refuse food, even if you are on a diet. It can offend the mistress of the house
• Do not be surprised at questions about your parents. These are normal questions for such a meeting. But at the same time you do not need to tell the whole story of your family

How to behave with the groom

• Answer all questions clearly and concisely. No introductory stories and details are needed. They will still have time to find out about this
• Evaluate at least one dish out loud. Of course, this should not be ordinary olivier, otherwise your words will be perceived by flattery
• If the dishes are quite simple and banal, then pay attention to the situation around. You may see a beautiful picture or beautiful flowers. Ask where they found such beauty
• No need to hug and even more kissing with parents. It's not beautiful. The maximum your young man can slightly gain you
• Do not drink a lot of alcohol. One glass of wine for the whole evening will be quite enough

Acquaintance with parents

• If it seems to you that one of your parents did not like you-do not show the look. Behave still culturally. And what you felt can tell your boyfriend later

Important: the main rule - do not bend the stick into courtesy and smiles. Stay yourself

Clothing etiquette for a girl

Clothing etiquette is a big topic for thought.

The choice of clothing is directly depends from:

• Your figure
• Your age
• Events that you are going to

Ottite of clothing

Are common rules:

• Clothing should decorate you. Even if the fashion is in short shorts with a high waist, and you do not have slender forms - you should not wear such an outfit
• Clothing should not be defiant. You can wear a short dress with stockings in a net to dance a private dance alone for your man. But not for going to the cafe
• Do not overload yourself with accessories. If your dress with a variegated floral print, then shoes and bag should be restrained shapes and flowers. If the dress, on the contrary, is plain and very simple in cut, then add the image with accessories
• Correct your age. This does not mean that if you are 50 years old, then you must dress in a hoodie that most peers wears. But wearing youth sneakers will also be inappropriate

How to choose clothes

Important: everything in clothes should be moderately and appropriate

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Tact in communication

Tactical communication is such a communication in which you do not offend your interlocutor and do not look like an ill -mannered person for him.

A sense of tact includes many etiquette rules.

Important: if a person behaves tactfully - he is considered wise

• Not be egoists. In any situation, put yourself in the place of your interlocutor. And think about how you would feel in a particular situation
• Need to know measure In everything and always. If it is appropriate to joke, then joke once. If you laugh, then dare and talk further
• Sometimes you need it yourself to adapt Under someone. You are the same person as the rest. Therefore, do not put yourself above the rest
• Not pretend Another person. Sooner or later, your mask will fall from the face and people around him may not be ready for this. Therefore, be yourself
• Not be excessively emotional. If someone angered you, you can show it with just a look. The right look will say about everything. No need to scream everywhere and everyone, as someone is wrong. Be smarter

Sense of tact

• Before telling someone about the shortage, think about relevance. If this is your best friend, then you can tell you that you liked the other color of her hair more. If this is your colleague, it is better to keep silent if you don't like something in it

Important: a tactful person has many friends and acquaintances. They love him and turn to him

At first glance, there are a lot of etiquette tips, but after dismantling them thoroughly, you will understand that they can all be easily followed and feel the queen.

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